The remainder that is left behind
Eva – Im amazed its taken you till 60 to realise, that all we accrue is just junk that others will rummage through and dispose, even if you had children, mementoes may not mean much to anyone but their original owner, sadly you cannot live on vicariously though material objects handed to others, when we die we are gone and so is the meaning we perceived in our posessions, I’m sure you wil prefer the soothing words spent into your ear by a feminine columnist who is making a living from your letter, and how many people have elucidated in their comments there ignorance to this idea also ? but I like you am dieing out without a genetic continuation on the horizon also, but this is the truth. If I were you I would sell as much as possible and destroy that which remains, which you cant part bare to part with … there is integrity to this … you entered with nothing it is best to leave with nothing … it is tidier.
Womens desires
If your clock is still ticking find someone who will do, and dont look for another apalling snob like you, who tries to pay for access to people of a certain class, its backfired by people trying to take money from people of a certain class and deliver little. Terry’s and your genetic’s might have created fine children ? what will make your children high flyers which is surely the important question for you ? is how much you can put into them, time wise and not just monetarily, two high flyers do not necessarily more high flyers make ? as neither of you will have the time to raise children ? did you think of this, or maybe you just after being pampered by a sugar daddy ? to make up for the joining fee ? you are proof that woman often conceive a set practical and often material desires as romance … evolve.